What's the best age to get childrens ears pierced?

by Emma Woodward October 27, 2023

Earring styles and trends may come and go, but the excitement of getting your child's ears pierced is a timeless tradition. It's a moment that can be filled with joy and anticipation, yet it also raises questions about the right age to start. As a parent, you want to make sure it's a safe and positive experience for your child. So, what is the best age for children to get their ears pierced?

1. Infant and toddlers ear piercing

Some parents choose to have their child's ears pierced during infancy, often when the baby is just a few months old. While this decision is largely a matter of personal preference, tradition or religion, there are a few things to consider.

Some pediatricians advise waiting due to potential risks. Puncturing the skin does open up a small risk of infection and babies and younger children lack the immunity we have later on to fight infection.
It can be challenging to clean and maintain the earrings on an infant.
The child's opinion on earrings isn't taken into account.
Remember earrings are very small and can cause chocking hazards for children under the age of 3

2. School-Age Children: Increased Independence for ear piercing

The most common time for girls to get their ears pierced is between the ages of 6 - 10.

Generally at this age the child has a better understanding of what is involved and can make their own decisions about whether they want their ears pierced or not.

However, there are some key things to consider.

Are they mature enough to understand the importance of cleaning and caring for their piercing.
Will they take responsibility for looking after their earrings and keeping them safe?
They might need more reassurance of the procedure as they're often fearful of the pain. It's usually no where near as painful as the expect so listen to their fears but give them something fun to focus on like choosing their first earrings they'll wear once they can change their earrings. I've got a wide range of really fun, colourful studs that are perfect for kids as they're sterling silver and small enough not to overwhelm little ears.

3. Teenage Years for first ear piercing

Starting secondary school is a time when many children are finding their independence and choosing to get their ears pierced can be a nice part of this process.

Teens can understanding the responsibility involved and actively participate in all aspects of ear piercing, from decision-making to aftercare
They have a better understanding of hygiene and the consequences of neglecting it.
They enjoy changing their earrings to match their outfit and have a growing sense of personal style.
However bear in mind that many schools have strict rules about earrings often they require

Small flat unobtrusive earrings - styles like these simple star studs or the hearts or the mini lightning bolt studs work well.
They request that earrings are removed for sports. So it's important a child has a somewhere they can keep their earrings once removed and will not loose them. A small pouch or tin can be useful for this

The Key Consideration: Your Child's Readiness To Have Their Ears Pierced

Ultimately, the best age for children to get their ears pierced varies from child to child. It depends on their maturity, readiness, and your family's values. The key is to ensure that your child is fully informed about the process, from the initial piercing to the importance of hygiene and maintenance.

Whichever age you choose, always prioritise safety and hygiene. Ensure that a professional pierces your child's ears and that they follow their aftercare instructions carefully. Additionally, talk to your child and make sure they understand the responsibility that comes with wearing earrings.

Remember, the best age for ear piercing is the one that aligns with your child's readiness and your comfort as a parent. It's a special moment, so make it one to cherish and celebrate together.

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